retransmit response to BYE requests until timer J expires

retransmit response to BYE requests until timer J expires

According to RFC 3261 section 17.2.2, which describes non-INVITE server
transaction, when a dialog enters the Completed state it must destroy
the dialog after Timer J (T1*64) fires.  For a BYE transaction Asterisk
terminates the dialog immediately during sip_hangup() when it should be
waiting T1*64 ms.  This results in some odd behavior.  For instance if
Asterisk receives a BYE and transmits a 200ok in response, if the endpoint
never receives the 200ok it will retransmit the BYE to which Asterisk
responds with a "481 Call leg/transaction does not exist" because the
dialog is already gone.

To resolve this I made a function called sip_scheddestroy_final().  This
differs slightly from sip_schedestroy() in that it enables a flag that
will prevent the destruction from ever being rescheduled or canceled
afterwards.  It also prevents the pvt's needdestroy flag from being set
which triggers the destruction of the dialog within the do_monitor thread().
By using this function we are guaranteed destruction will not occur
until the scheduled time.  This allows Asterisk to respond to any possible
retransmits for a dialog after we process the initial BYE request for T1*64 ms.

Other changes: I removed two instances where sip_cancel_destroy is used
right before calling sip_scheddestroy.  sip_scheddestroy always calls
sip_cancel_destroy before scheduling the new destruction so it is completely
unnecessary.

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/694/

git-svn-id: https://origsvn.digium.com/svn/asterisk/trunk@271262 65c4cc65-6c06-0410-ace0-fbb531ad65f3