Fix race condition for CEL LINKEDID_END event

This patch fixes to situations that could cause the CEL LINKEDID_END event to
be missed.

1) During a core stop gracefully, modules are unloaded when ast_active_channels
== 0. The LINKDEDID_END event fires during the channel destructor. This means
that occasionally, the cel_* module will be unloaded before the channel is
destroyed. It seemed generally useful to wait until the refcount of all
channels == 0 before unloading, so I added a channel counter and used it in the
shutdown code.

2) During a masquerade, ast_channel_change_linkedid is called. It calls
ast_cel_check_retire_linkedid which unrefs the linkedid in the linkedids
container in cel.c. It didn't ref the new linkedid. Now it does.

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/1900/
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